[osogood]

well i have to say its all good but there are somethings missing for one he dont kiss i cant deal with that and when we go out he never holds my hand or holds me at all. the man is so damn hard to read it makes me nuts. the only time i can get him to do any of these things is get him drunk. and then hes a mad man but this aint no relationship. i have to say he dose live two hours from me but we talk everyday even when hes at work which is cool but you know what hes doing bitchin about work i dont need to hear it. damn i need some help if anyone reads this i can use some help. before you help me let me just say i was married for 13 years to a man who beat me the hole time we were together it took me a long time to get away form him i had to hide for a while. anyways this guys is sweet we talk but he gets upset real easy quik temper but not to the point to hitting this guys couldnt kill a fly. hes just boring come on now could you be with someone who never kisses you or holds you in public maybe its me i dont know but some help would be nice

[Sweettooth]

to say that it sounds like you've come a long way from your past relationship and so you def now deserve someone who can give you the AFFECTION you desire. Especially since you've been deprived of it for so long. I wish I was in your boat about wanting to be kissed , I try to avoid kisses with my spouse lately because it's come to the point where it doesn't do that special something for me because the relationship is so cold right now. He too is quick tempered. It is hard to communicate with someone who feels they have to yell to make a point and tthen doesn't hear you past where they've drawn the line that they are already too upset to talk anymore. Holding handds,well that's always a good thing;0) Has youur guy always been the same? Mine seemeed to just change as the kids were born! The main thing is now sounds like the time to pamper yourself and make every day count,I KNOW it sounds like talk from OPRAH but if you want to remain with this new guy, maybe temp find what he does for you that makes you want to overlook his negatives. Shoot wish I had some fab hints but really haven't figured out the whole how to not piss off a man besides to not talk to them and let them think they have all the good ideas etc. No real way to live By the way sorry if this wasn't addressing anything, I don't have much of a memory over here, once I'm off track, I"M WAY OFF! Hope you've got some fun things planned for this weekend, ~Adenna